Dollieh Sanctuary

I'm so so sorry to hear about this, emby-san. :cries: :hugs: Please know that I'll be praying for you both for comfort and healing!!!

Thank you, everyone. Unfortunately, the worst happened. Barbara had a bad reaction to the chemo. It destroyed her white blood cells and damaged her bone marrow. She developed sepsis and she died Monday at 7:20 p.m.

I set up a GoFundMe. Originally it was supposed to help pay for her treatment. I probably still need to use some of the funds for that, but right now I need to make sure that I have enough money to put her to rest. If you can't donate, please share the link.
https://gofund.me/926467b9

I don't know what to say other than I am so sorry and send you my love. And some support. //great big hugs//

EDIT: I hope you'll take this in the spirit it's given. I know you are hurting so deeply right now that you don't know how to breath. First, if you haven't already, seek out professional help to get through this. If you don't have a therapist, find one to talk to. Next, you might feel the need to spend more than necessary on funeral expenses. I ask that you don't. My mom spent much more money on my stepdad's final expenses than she should have or he would have wanted her to. It left her financially strapped from then on to the point where she lost her home. It would have broken my stepdad's heart to know that. Don't let your grief overpower your sensibility. Barbara would want you to take care of yourself before anything else. /////more hugs////

My deepest condolences. (And ditto everything Kirahfaye says.)

Oh honey......*gryphon hugs*